Monthly Archives: July 2007


Finally found the article on Twitter I came across while I was away. And the line that got me to use it was, “So why has Twitter been so misunderstood? Because it’s experiential. Scrolling through random Twitter messages can’t explain the appeal. You have to do it — and, more important, do it with friends.” Including full article here.


Clive Thompson on How Twitter Creates a Social Sixth Sense

Clive Thompson Email 06.26.07 | 2:00 AM

Twitter is the app that everyone loves to hate. Odds are you’ve noticed people — probably much younger than you — manically using Twitter, a tool that lets you post brief updates about your everyday thoughts and activities to the Web via browser, cell phone, or IM. The messages are limited to 140 characters, so they lean toward pithy, haiku-like utterances. When I dropped by the main Twitter page, people had posted notes like “Doing lunch and picking up father-in-law from senior center.” Or “Checking out Ghost Whisperer” or simply “Thinking I’m old.” (Most users are between 18 and 27.)It might seem like blogging taken to a supremely banal extreme. Productivity guru Tim Ferriss calls Twitter “pointless email on steroids.” One Silicon Valley businessman I met complained that his staff had become Twitter-obsessed. “You can’t say anything in such a short message,” he said, baffled. “So why do it at all?”

They’re precisely right: Individually, most Twitter messages are stupefyingly trivial. But the true value of Twitter — and the similarly mundane Dodgeball, a tool for reporting your real-time location to friends — is cumulative. The power is in the surprising effects that come from receiving thousands of pings from your posse. And this, as it turns out, suggests where the Web is heading.

When I see that my friend Misha is “waiting at Genius Bar to send my MacBook to the shop,” that’s not much information. But when I get such granular updates every day for a month, I know a lot more about her. And when my four closest friends and worldmates send me dozens of updates a week for five months, I begin to develop an almost telepathic awareness of the people most important to me.

It’s like proprioception, your body’s ability to know where your limbs are. That subliminal sense of orientation is crucial for coordination: It keeps you from accidentally bumping into objects, and it makes possible amazing feats of balance and dexterity.

Twitter and other constant-contact media create social proprioception. They give a group of people a sense of itself, making possible weird, fascinating feats of coordination.

For example, when I meet Misha for lunch after not having seen her for a month, I already know the wireframe outline of her life: She was nervous about last week’s big presentation, got stuck in a rare spring snowstorm, and became addicted to salt bagels. With Dodgeball, I never actually race out to meet a friend when they report their nearby location; I just note it as something to talk about the next time we meet.

It’s almost like ESP, which can be incredibly useful when applied to your work life. You know who’s overloaded — better not bug Amanda today — and who’s on a roll. A buddy list isn’t just a vehicle to chat with friends but a way to sense their presence. Are they available to talk? Have they been away? This awareness is crucial when colleagues are spread around the office, the country, or the world. Twitter substitutes for the glances and conversations we had before we became a nation of satellite employees.

So why has Twitter been so misunderstood? Because it’s experiential. Scrolling through random Twitter messages can’t explain the appeal. You have to do it — and, more important, do it with friends. (Monitoring the lives of total strangers is fun but doesn’t have the same addictive effect.) Critics sneer at Twitter and Dodgeball as hipster narcissism, but the real appeal of Twitter is almost the inverse of narcissism. It’s practically collectivist — you’re creating a shared understanding larger than yourself.

Mind you, quick-ping media can be a massive time-suck. You also may not want more information pecking at your frayed attention span. And who knows? Twitter’s rabid fans (their numbers are doubling every three weeks) may well abandon it for a shinier new toy. It happened to Friendster.

But here’s my bet: The animating genius behind Twitter will live on in future apps. That tactile sense of your community is simply too much fun, too useful — and it makes the group more than the sum of its parts.

Retrieved online from on July 24, 2007.

Buenos dias

Current mood: skattered

Woke up today with Argentina on the brain. Everything from craving eggs cooked with olive oil and espresso for breakfast, the music I’m searching for to hear, to projects I’m working on. A while back I decided to make a wish list of posters for the apartment — something different. Woke up today thinking I really need a picture of La Boca (colorful neighborhood) in my kitchen.

Probably all comes from looking forward to Kari and Adam’s party today I’m sure — I need to remember to bring Adam more tea I brought back from Argentina (I never acquired a taste for it) and Kari is translating a family recipe for empanadas for me.

A good day to clean

Current mood: irritated

Last night with the folks was exhausting. It’s odd – talking about everything with people who knew her is at most times comforting. Talking about everything with people who didn’t know her just gets me upset and cranky. I had to jump into this space too fast of acting like she died a long time ago so I can talk about the happy reminiscent shit because I don’t want to show how raw things really are. Sorry folks, lost my best friend. Gonna get a little irrational at times.

When I woke up still in that mood — the kind of mood where I want to punch something — I decided to stay home. I’m fine. Just feisty.

Also woke up with the thought that if someone breaks in again I won’t even know what’s missing, and there was a large break-in yesterday across the street. By the way, I’ve lived in this neighborhood for 9 years and hadn’t heard of a break-in until this summer. This is ridiculous.

Update on the past two years

Disappeared for a while, so here’s the update on what’s been going on:

  • Started the University at Albany Weekend MBA Program August 2005
  • Work full time, school full time
  • Spent Thanksgiving in North Carolina – the smoked turkey was divine
  • Close friend (Monica) paralyzed in car accident
  • Work full time, school full time, lots of trips to NJ
  • Spent Christmas with Monica’s son and parents
  • Work full time, school full time, ordering lots of movies and music from Amazon for Monica, lots of trips to NJ
  • International Business class in Buenos Aires, Argentina – July 2006 – I love Argentina!
  • Dad had a stroke – he’s now fine
  • Parents moved (again)
  • Boss on sabbatical September to December 2006 in Paris so it’s double full-time work plus school, and lots of trips to NJ. New president at work so things were nuts for a while in the transition
  • Really sick January and February with bronchitis – took a while to catch up to speed again
  • Work full time, school full time, lots of trips to NJ
  • June 26 – In a minor bike wreck the day I find out Monica is “very bad” with sudden pnemonia
  • June 26-29 – Spent three days by her side until she passed away
  • July 1 – Close friends had a baby while I’m visiting on a break from Monica’s family
  • Services for Monica July 2&3, 2007
  • July 2 – Reconnected with a friend of Monica’s I should have been in touch with long ago
  • July 7 – Finished the bulk of the MBA program – one class left for the fall along with my thesis.
  • July 9 – Apartment got somewhat broken into (bag stolen from the window) and the police now watch my house
  • Parents trying to buy their first house
  • Bought a BlackBerry
  • Rebuilding a life and actually doing well

Seriously, I don’t follow horoscopes…

Flipping through a magazine and came across the horoscopes; this mag is every six months so it’s supposed to cover the second half of 2007. Curiosity got me and I was intrigued by what was written:

…It has been over a decade since your romantic evolution has been as ripe for rapid progress as it is now. Remember, for best results, keep your priorities screwed on straight: Always focus more intensely on the pleasure of giving the beautiful love you have to offer than on your hunger for the love you have always wanted to get.